We all learn to present different versions of ourselves as we move through life. There may be the capable person at work, the dependable one in the family, the easygoing friend, or the person who rarely asks for anything. These ways of showing up are not necessarily false. They often develop because they help us… Continue reading The Masks We Wear
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Feeling responsible for everyone else.
Some people move through life with a quiet sense that it is their job to keep everything together. They notice when someone is upset, step in before being asked, anticipate what others need, and take responsibility for the emotional atmosphere around them. At work, they may become the dependable person who absorbs extra pressure. In… Continue reading Feeling responsible for everyone else.
Living at Your Speed
Life fills up. Work, family, appointments, errands, messages, and the many small things that need our attention. Over time, we usually find a pace that feels manageable. We learn how to move from one thing to the next, and many parts of our day become automatic. We get up, get ready, drive, work, respond, cook,… Continue reading Living at Your Speed
Feeling Overwhelmed
Overwhelm does not only arrive when life is difficult. Sometimes it just shows up when life is full. A busy work season, family responsibilities, social plans, good news, change, opportunity, or even moments we have been hoping for can still leave us feeling like we have too much to hold. It can be confusing to… Continue reading Feeling Overwhelmed
Your Relationship with Time
Many of us move through the day with time quietly measuring us. Did I start early enough? Was I productive enough? Did I get enough done to earn my evening rest? We all have things to do, responsibilities to meet, and commitments that matter. Deadlines can be useful. They help us organize life, make plans,… Continue reading Your Relationship with Time
Human Systems: How We Show Up in the Different Arenas of Life
We do not live in just one system. We move between many: family, work, friendships, intimate relationships, community, and the private inner world we carry with us. Each arena asks something different from us. At work, we may become capable, organized, and responsible. In family, we may become the peacekeeper, the rebel, the caretaker, or… Continue reading Human Systems: How We Show Up in the Different Arenas of Life
Feeling Disconnected
feeling disconnected
Shame and Self Criticism
the struggle of shame and self criticism
Intimacy, Vulnerability, and Relationship
relationship in connection
Life Transitions
The changing world around us