Some people move through life with a quiet sense that it is their job to keep everything together. They notice when someone is upset, step in before being asked, anticipate what others need, and take responsibility for the emotional atmosphere around them. At work, they may become the dependable person who absorbs extra pressure. In… Continue reading Feeling responsible for everyone else.
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Living at Your Speed
Life fills up. Work, family, appointments, errands, messages, and the many small things that need our attention. Over time, we usually find a pace that feels manageable. We learn how to move from one thing to the next, and many parts of our day become automatic. We get up, get ready, drive, work, respond, cook,… Continue reading Living at Your Speed
Your Relationship with Time
Many of us move through the day with time quietly measuring us. Did I start early enough? Was I productive enough? Did I get enough done to earn my evening rest? We all have things to do, responsibilities to meet, and commitments that matter. Deadlines can be useful. They help us organize life, make plans,… Continue reading Your Relationship with Time
When School Ends: Can Fathers Slow Down Enough to Feel Summer?
The end of the school year can feel like a relief, but it can also bring a quiet shift in the family. Routines loosen. Children are home more. Plans, camps, meals, rides, work schedules, and family expectations all begin to move around in new ways. For some families, summer brings more space and connection. For… Continue reading When School Ends: Can Fathers Slow Down Enough to Feel Summer?
Human Systems: How We Show Up in the Different Arenas of Life
We do not live in just one system. We move between many: family, work, friendships, intimate relationships, community, and the private inner world we carry with us. Each arena asks something different from us. At work, we may become capable, organized, and responsible. In family, we may become the peacekeeper, the rebel, the caretaker, or… Continue reading Human Systems: How We Show Up in the Different Arenas of Life
Men and the Struggle to Talk About Feelings
mens emotions and vulnerability for more connection
Burnout and Overwhelm
when burnout and overwhelm are with you